Making Love Better - Intimacy Healing & Training
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Couples training (and healing) is for couples who want to enhance all areas of their relationship. A full consultation is included at the start of your initial couples session, so we can get clear on how you want to connect with each other. Please allow 15 minutes for this.

Q: Is it a 1/1 session?
A: Yes

Q: What is involved in the couples healing?
A: We get clear on the issues that are disturbing your relationship, and allow space for all hurt feelings to be expressed and released. There is a healthy release of blame, self-pity and resentment; as well as strategies and techniques given - so that you are able to understand and support each other on your combined healing journey.

Q: What is involved in the couples training session?
A: You get to choose from the 'menu' what you want to learn about. I recommend the three hour session to get the maximum benefit. It is essential to know your emotional differences - and how to successfully support each other. A woman needs to feel safe and heard for her to stay sensually open and receptive. A man needs to feel successful in loving his woman, to stay emotionally connected.

Q: Do you teach tantra massage to couples?
A: Yes - this is also known as loving touch massage

Q: Are we naked?
A: Nudity removes perceived barriers of separation - we were all born naked and vulnerable. Nudity is a choice for your session, without being a necessity - other than in the loving touch massage teachings. The person receiving a loving touch massage is nude.

Q: Why do we have to be nude for the loving touch massage sessions?
A: You are learning to give each other a fully nude, tantric sensual massage. I will retain my underwear if it is preferred.

Q: Is there any body contact between you and us?
A: Only in the loving touch massage training. This is when I am showing you the moves. You then practice them.

Q: Am I allowed to touch you?
A: No - You do not touch me during your session; you are simply learning; (and focusing on each other). This session is all about you enhancing YOUR relationship.

Q: How long is each session?
A: At least an hour or hour and half (more investment in time needed for Loving Touch Massage training). It depends on how much you want to invest in each other. Three hours is best.

Q: What's the difference in the longer session?
A: In the longer session you learn more and understand more. This gives greater (and lasting) improvements in your relationship.

Q: Do I need to be shaven?
A: No - you are accepted as you are

Q: Is my genital area massaged in the loving touch massage?
A: Yes - every part of your body is massaged. Loving touch massage is a real full body massage. A woman is always asked for permission to enter her sacred space.

Q: What happens if I get erect?
A: This is perfectly normal. You will be guided to breathe this sexual energy up to your heart, then around your body. In tantra, you are either fully giving or fully receiving.

Q: Is there any oral or intercourse between us?
A: No. The teachings are touch only. You can use them in any love-making situation of your choice when you are together in your own space.

Q: Am I allowed to ejaculate?
A: Ejaculation is not part of the session, as it detracts from you fully being in your power. You will learn how to breathe and circulate your power around your body. This keeps you feeling more connected with your partner.

Q: What if I feel like I NEED to ejaculate?
A: You will only feel the need to ejaculate if you keep thinking you need to ejaculate. The more focused you are on your tantric breathing, the more relaxed you will feel. ALL tension moves out of your lingam (penis) when you do tantric breathing.

Q: But isn't an ejaculation an orgasm?
A: Ejaculation and orgasm are two separate things - they just usually happen at the same time for a man. An ejaculation is a release of pressure. An orgasm is the sexual energy builiding and expanding the feeling of connection. Ejaculating stops your orgasm.

Q: How do I NOT ejaculate?
A: The tantric breathing technique that I teach you gives you complete control. You will be amazed at how much control you have when you breathe this way.

Q: What if I suffer from premature ejaculation?
A: Premature ejaculation can be cured forever with the tantric breathing and holding techniques you can learn in this session.

Q: What happens if I accidentally ejaculate?
A: It sometimes happens. Before we begin the massage I will show you how to use your breath and pc muscle to slow down and prevent an ejaculation. Usually I am able to stop it in time. If you accidentally ejaculate, that is ok.

Q: What happens if I feel like I need to ejaculate at the end of the session?
A: The physical need to ejaculate is gone, however the mind gets attached to the need for an ejaculation. I will remind you (and guide you) to breathe through this need you have. The need will pass in a couple of minutes.

Q: What if I can't get the breathing technique right?
A: The breathing technique is easy - you breathe this way when you are sleeping. Decide to relax, and enjoy the experience. Then your breathing will become easier.

Q: Do you have shower facilities?
A: Yes. And yes, you may shower together :)

Q: We want to keep this private and special. Is there private parking?
A: Yes... and it is a beautiful and private setting.

Q: How much does a Making Love Better couples training session cost?
A: 1 hour $160 / 1.5 hours $240 / 2 hours $320 / 2.5 hours $380 / 3 hours $450

Q: How do I make a booking?
A: You can contact me via phone, skype, txt or email to make a booking. Or to ask any questions I haven't covered here. Please remember to book early.

Q: What if I can't make an appointment or booking during your normal hours?
A: I can be quite flexible with my time. Please contact me and we will work something out for you both.

Q: What are your intimacy healing guides?
A: These are short, informative eBooks with easy-to-follow techniques to achieve immediate success on each subject. Download immediately after purchase.

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Want to learn about creating Sacred Relationships?
Making Love Better - Intimacy Healing and Training for Couples
How to Love a Woman - Emotional & Physical
Tantra for Women

Jacqui Olliver
Healing Consultant and Relations Strategist
Phone: +64 9 480 7981 or Mobile +64 (0)21 815 029
Skype: jacqui.ollliver

Please remember to book early.
A full consultation is included with your initial appointment.
Please allow 10 minutes for this.