Do You Have a Trusting Relationship?
Want to Feel Supported, Loved & Honored?
Healthy relationships are about creating honestly, truthfully... Being present in your emotions... owning them - without blaming others.

Everybody needs to feel acknowledged, accepted and appreciated - do you?
Do you know how to ask for what you need?

Creating sacred relationships involves being truthful about who you are; and lovingly communicating what you desire and need.

When you are honestly true to yourself, you are able to create honest and truthful relationships. You are able to create from the present - and enjoy the gift!

Know what your OWN needs are; Body, Mind & Soul. So you can live without false expectations of your partner.

We all have our own path to travel - this brings us closer together - but at other times makes us feel as though we are being pushed apart.

Honour each other's journey - knowing that honestly communicating (without blame) will set you free to enjoy each other. In the Now.

Speak your truth ... lovingly

Want to learn how to be present; and stay in the here and now?
Sensual Healing

Need more help? Please email me (contact details at bottom of this page)

Relationships - What You Need To Know
Did you know that men tend to avoid shame at all costs?

Ladies - please - NEVER embarass your man, by putting him down in front of others. This will seriously erode your relationship. Instead, speak to him privately - he will respect you for this.

Then appreciate him for what he IS doing right :-) Men need to feel successful. A man always appreciates appreciation.

Women need to feel loved and supported.
Gents - when your lady is having irrational fears - hold her and support her, with the strength of your love.

When she is feeling fearful, she just needs to feel heard and loved...

Remember, underneath our grown-up exteriors; are the remains of our childhood pains. The beliefs we formulated back then often influence the way we live our lives now. The past replays itself in the present - clouding your perception of now.

When you protect your partner from feeling shame or fear; you are truly on the path to creating a sacred relationship...

Got past relationship issues? Pain from your past?
Sensual healing

Speak your truth ... lovingly

Want to Heal Your Life from the Inside-Out?
Sometimes it can be difficult to let go of the hurt from past relationships - and the beliefs that you will end up being hurt... or you are not good enough... or... and...

Do you want to let go of the past forever? So you can feel free (and loved) in your relationships now? Sign up now for my Healing Your Life coaching program - so you can feel worthy of living the life you deserve.

Relationship Services
Want to learn about creating trust-filled Relationships?
Making Love Better - Intimacy Training for Couples in Relationship
How to Love a Woman - Emotional & Physical
Tantra for Women

Feel Like You're Being Heard?
Getting a Man to Support You Emotionally
Why is it that you want to talk, and he won't listen?
It's not that he doesn't want to hear you - it's just that he doesn't know how to listen without feeling blamed...
Or how to not feel responsible for solving your problems.

You see, men are very goal orientated. When you just need to be heard, he misunderstands; and thinks you need your problems solved. He doesn't realise that you can't relax until you have talked.

A man doesn't know that his heart-felt solutions turn you off.
Men think differently; and act differently. Yet, men THRIVE on appreciation.

The way to get a man to listen is to say: "Honey, can you please listen to me for ten minutes? You don't need to fix anything, I just need to be heard. I know I'll feel a whole lot better just to talk about it."

At the end of the ten minutes, give him LOTS of appreciation
(you can NEVER give a man too much appreciation).

In fact, when you would like his help with something, thank him in advance: "I SO appreciate you helping me with the dishes. Thank you."

Appreciate a man, to get him to do more for you ;-)

Want to learn more man skills?
Learn how to transform your relationship with these easy techniques in:
Making Love Better - Intimacy Training for Couples in Relationship

Want to release baggage from past relationships?
Sensual Healing

Create your dreams

Need more info? Any questions? Please feel free to contact me

Want To Successfully Love A Woman?
(It's Not As Difficult As You May Think)
But there's a couple of things you need to know - and put into practice...

Because women think differently from you. And if you expect a woman to think and act as you would - you're going to run into some problems - like the big chill...

Ever felt that cold front from a woman? It's colder than the Arctic Circle - and directed at you. Why you ask? Because she feels like she's not being heard - by you.

When a woman feels like she can't talk and be heard (especially by you), she begins to shut down. Women NEED to talk. Just like you need time out to relax. A woman can't properly relax until she has talked about her day - and until she feels heard.

The No.1 step in successfully loving a woman - and the most important - is to learn how to listen... Without getting defensive... Or trying to solve her problems... She is not a man, she is a woman - and she needs to be heard. Fully.

Give her your WHOLE attention. For about 10 minutes. Mmmm...feel that cold front turn into warm appreciation! Just what you need.

The learning is the easy part. Then it is up to you how skilful you want to become.

What is it worth to you? This is one of the most important keys, to creating the relationship of your dreams... and it is never too late to learn :-)

Want To Feel Empowered As a Man?
How To Love a Woman - Body Mind & Soul!

EXPECT SUCCESS!

Want to experience being present; and staying in the here and now?
Got Issues from Past Relationships? Sensual Healing

Want more info? Please contact me

Relationship Health
Want to learn about creating Sacred Relationships?
Making Love Better - Intimacy Training for Couples in Relationship
How to Love a Woman - Emotional & Physical
Tantra for Women

Sensual Healing
Do you have past relationship issues? Past relationship baggage?
Need sensual healing?

Anything else I can help with? Please contact me
I promise to honour you; body mind and Soul.

Jacqui Olliver
Phone: +64 9 480 7981 or Mobile +64 (0)21 815 029
Skype: jacqui.ollliver
Email Me

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A full consultation is included with your initial appointment.
Please allow 10 minutes for this.